We have been doing so well the past two years he doesn't know how to express emotion or love never had it at home from his parents. Now he is saying he doesn't know what he wants and only when he drinks he has strong feeling towards me and knows he loves me and is happy but when sober he's just cold and well not very nice. I got tired and told him if he didn't know what he wanted then i was just going to have to try and move on but he says i broke his heart when i said that he says he misses us wants to be with us but negativity beats him. He has gone through depression before but I don't know what to do now I'm suffering along with our son. He asked me for time to give him time to see whats wrong and what he really wants. He tells me he wants to be a family but really I just think he isn't not mentally ready for it.
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Make sure he holds his son to get a bond with him. He needs to man-up and be a father. If he does it will be a lot better for the boy, and, he will most likely really enjoy being a father as time goes on and the boy grows up from a baby. As a young father though he doesn't have a strong bond yet. It comes as time goes by and he is in the boy's life watching him grow. If you hang out with other young parents it would help him see that it is a normal thing to do. If you don't have such friends, go to a busy park or playground and he can see the other guys and that they are happy and engaged in the lives of their kids. But, if he has significant mental issues, maybe it would be best to to have him in the child's life.0