I'm in no contact with my long distance ex boyfriend. We haven't talked in 2 weeks. I left lingerie at his house from this summer and he texted me asking what he should do with it and if i would like him to send it back to me...
I haven't texted back. I don't really know what to say... It's been 3 days since he texted me and I'm wondering if I should respond back saying that I don't want it, that he should just throw them in the garbage or just keep strong to my No contact and ignore the text all together.
I don't know why he is asking me this now after 3 weeks of being broken up.. If he was that concerned with it wouldn't he have asked when we first broke up? Could he just be using this as a reason to talk to me? ugghhh, don't know what to do!!
Most Helpful Guy
He could be trolling bait. You'd be wise to maintain no contact.
This is especially true if you broke it off with him. You need to show him you're having no second thoughts.
Uh, if it's nice stuff and size 4 I'll give you my ex's address. Maybe the two of them will hit it off.0
Most Helpful Girl
if you dont want it just maintain no contact, sounds like an excuse to talk to you tbh. he could have mailed it to you without asking if he just wanted to give it back. v0