We are both under 20 and at first I lived 10 hours away and I came to visit here numerous times even bought her $90 roses on Valentine's day even though we weren't dating. She is the coolest girl I've ever met she loves zombies and horror movies but she was still very romantic and so much fun it was like we were both kid best friends when we were together. We did everything together I payed for it all willingly from expensive dinners and movies and trips to the lakes and got food when she needed it. I did everything she wanted even if it was inconvenient. We talked about being together forever getting married and kids and all that stuff. We loved eachother unconditionally. She had problems with friends so we were eachothers bestfriends all summer. we are both loners. Lately we have both been stressed with school and have had fighting problems and she claims nothing feels the same and this has literally been only a week of it. Before that week she was learning handwriting with my last name with her name. So this week we barely saw each other and when we did we fought and one day I spilled my heart saying how I am sorry and I promise to be better to her and not get annoyed and mad and such and she didn't answer at all. I got really upset and deleted her off stuff I thought its obvious her decision is to end us. I shouldn't have assumed. But she asked the next day if she just got dumped and me being upset said yes I didn't mean it. Then she not listening to my side claimed we are over and that she needs time to think. 2 days later she texts me saying it's over and the 'spark' is gone has been for a while which I know she was normal a week ago. And she needs to be happy first before making someone else happy. But get this she said we aren't getting back together it will be a new person. I'm absolutely crushed and she won't answer my texts or anything. She put up a pic of her smiling yesterday. She doesn't seem upset. what do I do? I want her back. Together 7 months.
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Well... if you really want her back... you should confront her face to face and explain what you REALLY wanted to say. Then tell her your feelings when she's SINGLE. You guys were childhood friends, so you should know what to say to her. Just listen to your heart (I know it's cheesy), and you'll know what to do. Texting won't solve everything. If you keep doing so, you'll be seen as desperate. And you have to seem confident but kind.
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