im asking for my friend. She broke up with her boyfriend of one year because they had too many arguments recently. The guy begged her but she still didn't take him back. He said he's hurt and promised to change but her mom told her not to talk to him anymore. After a week he gave up and he asked for his promise ring back. She said she misses him at time but tries not think about it and that she really loved him. Would you take him back? Whos wrong? how to solve?
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whoa dude, way too little information
why's the mom involved, what promise ring, why did they break up, if he did what to you? what did he do, to her?
what were they arguing about? -ok, that, I can help with, ALL COUPLES FIGHT. ok? about EVERYTHING. if it becomes Physical, its needs to be Over, but all couples Fight, ok? my wife and I just had an argument that lasted for 3 weeks, it was fucking bad! ok? the fight ended when I saw that she needed me, and she needed me to help her, so I put my life aside for awhile and choose to talk to her about it later, cuz she's more important to me, than myself.-now we weren't yellin and screamin every day, we also don't Ever put each other down, we just have disagreements. all couples do. it is hard to get along with another human being, ok! especially when they're your partner and they don't agree with you, it becomes this big huge deal with feelings involved and you have to keep the peace and get all political (hypothetically speaking, not literally)
ask, a third party, ask more friends. I got my answer from the most unlikely person, an older woman I work with for about a year now, and I just hinted at it when having her sign papers one day, and she told me all couples fight. if anyone says they never fight, they're not telling you the truth, that just means that person either is always going to go with the flow instead of disagreeing, in other words they're going to be the first to compromise, or that they don't VIEW IT as a fight or something. remember human being's are as complicated or as simple as you so choose to put them, and it is not possible for something (like a fight) to not happen if you give it an infinite chance or amount of possibilities. Nothing is. That's basic science, and it's true. if you give something the chance to happen times infinitum, it will happen eventually, thats why I don't put myself in bad situations.1
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