It hurts so bad to know that he lied to me. But I can't help but think of all the good times we had.
I want to be done with him emotionally. I don't see him at all I cut off all contact. But it hurts. I have forgiven him. I let it go. I can talk about it peacefully to others but when I am alone I just cry sometimes.
I Keep myself busy all the time. I am in school full time (even saturdays lol) I have a full time job I exercise.
I pray about it too. All the time. I just want to know what will be the next step.
- Give it timeVote A
- Meet someone newVote B
- continue to pray on itVote C
- Sit and have a talk with himVote D
Most Helpful Guy
I was gonna suggest keeping yourself busy but you're already doing that which is great. So giving it time (A) is the best option for you. I don't recommend meeting someone new because you're likely to be that "date that talks about her ex" and that's a sure fire way to send the new date running like hell.0
Most Helpful Girl
in general time does it best but if you wanna be quick then go to him, pick a hell of a fight with him that turns into a war and end up losing the war, not only does it work fast, it would every little bit of you will be crushed into a million pieces and would hate him from the bottom of your heart for eternity (or long enough to forget him)
actually may that isn't such a good idea especially for those with a weak heart/mind/soul.. scratch that..0