Most Helpful Guy
Have you actually got a reason, or are you like most other women who want a divorce? It can make a big difference.
Most Helpful Girl
I still have a husband out in Egypt who I came back to the states and left behind, thinking I was going to return to. We have had many ups and downs, break ups and make ups, but bottom line---He doesn't want to really divorce me and is still hoping I will return and have a future with me.
He is taking this "Divorce dramas" hard, your hubby. And he doesn't want to lose you. It sounds as though he will fight tooth and nail to hold on to you so this delicate matter has to be handled with kid gloves.
I would suggest for now, Taking a break, perhaps moving out to take your break, take your space and do some soul searching. And if it is what you find you really do want, find a lawyer and talk to him of getting the process started. However, for now, expect a problem child and there isn't anything Tougher, sweetie.
For now, being this all new, he is hurt, has resentment, he will be stubborn. But in time, if the War of the Roses continues down beaten path, he most likely will eventually come to his senses and let go and let God.
Good luck. xx