So basically my bf of 3 years broke up with me about two months ago. We had a goooood relationship. We always worked out our arguments and his daughter and family loved me. They would always ask when we were getting married. So naturally I pushed the issuer. He told me he didn't feel right staying with or breaking up with me. So he said breaking up witll force the issue to see if he really does miss me. So when we broke up he said that if we do get back together he would propose. We talked Sunday and he said I haven't give. Him enough time. Of coarse he will still miss me after 2 months. Then I told him to stop giving me false hope and just end things right there. That his relationship will never happen. He told me he couldn't say that.
My question is why does he keep giving me this hope?
Does he think he will get back together with me eventually?
Most Helpful Guy
So he broke up with you to see if he misses you? That's one dumb ass reason sounds like he's hooking up with someone else or something to be honest and that might explain why he's waiting it out or I could be wrong and maybe he just wanted to see if he actually missed you and you bugging him is making him not miss you who really knows.
Anyways he could be giving you this hope to play with you, because he's unsure, because he enjoys having you locked while he's out having fun who knows. I mean it seems like he wants to get back together with you eventually yeah but for all we know he could not as well and just be messing with you or doing something else or seeing if he can find someone better while he makes you wait who really knows.0
Most Helpful Girl
He is probably being honest about being 'unsure' about your relationship. However, I don't think that's a good sign for the future. Like mrock said, he'd been in that situation before too, and ended up not with the girl in question. I think if you are that doubtbul, it's not right. Love is also a decision, not just a feeling. If he can't without a doubt know that he loves you unconditionally, it's not right. He shouldn't have so much doubt that you need to break up so he can explore that feeling some more. . . I think it's over.0