I recently had a breakup with a fiance. Our relationship got stagnate and things fell apart for us. I continued to fight for her and was starting to win the battle. She was starting to see that I really did care to save the relationship.
The other night ago something happened to something she had bought for her biological father. It was a ring and for some reason she got it in her head that I took it. I didn't and cannot seem to convince her otherwise. It sent me on an emotional roller coaster because there is nothing worse than being accused of something and you being completely honest about it and not get believed. I have had issues with a few white lies in the past and this has strained the trust but did not completely break it.
I took some time away from the house because we still live together due to our current financial situation. When I got home, I wanted to talk about things. She had threatened that if the ring did not return she would be leaving as soon as possible. It bothered me and sent me further into the emotional roller coaster that I had already been riding. She was unresponsive to wanting to talk about anything. I guess I should have given it a little more time. I fell and I fell hard after her refusal to talk and grabbed her phone and the keys to our vehicle (I pay for both). I told her that if she wanted out then she would lose all the things that go along with it. I didn't mean it and didn't even realize what I was doing until about 15 minutes after I had started doing it. I caught myself doing what I had done and stopped. She had started packing a bag and had woken her daughter up to do the same, but did not leave. I gave a big and sincere apology the next day (yesterday) to her and her daughter and promised that it would never happen again. I didn't get much response from either of them. I left it at that. Later in the evening she was ready to talk but I was still emotional.
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We all have our tough times and shitty moments but even I would flip shit if my man were to try to take all that away and kick us out or leave like that. It would be incredibly hard to just forgive and forget that, it would always be something in the back of my mind anytime we have a serious fight. All I can say is just keep trying to win her back and prove your loyalty to the family, don't lie to her as that has screwed you over before and still is.1