I don't know how to get him back. I'm so heart broken, and I have changed/am in the process of changing for myself. I tried talking to him and he actually let me without leaving the room, he said he thinks we work better this way and that were both happier this way and i said 'I'm not happier this way, i want us to be able to work through everything' etc. I don't know what to do. I miss him, and I miss everything we had, and would have in the future.
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This is all part of maturing. You may get him back or may not. Time will tell. One thing is for sure you won't get him back by being the assertive one. Let him go through his process. If he misses you he will contact you. Whatever the outcome you must accept. Meanwhile continue with your life and don't stalk him on social media. It only eats you up.
Be thankful that you learned that lesson early on.
You are still young and there are plenty of other fish in the sea.