I broke up with my ex about a year ago because she was suffocating me with our relationship and draining my happiness. It's been a while since then, she's grown up and matured a lot and I found this attractive. We started talking again as friends about 2 months ago which soon ended up in us somewhat dating again but we didn't put a label on it. I am the kind of guy who is kind of an ass to date ex: not calling back, not texting for days, hanging out with my friends more than her, but it pays off because I can be very sweet and sincere and girls just love it. I haven't had any luck trying it any other way. Things were going good, but this time the tables turned. She starts to use my technique and man... It works and I don't like feeling vulnerable. Now I find myself attempting to contact her multiple times a day, lonely, vulnerable, desperate. That's not the man I once saw in the mirror and I want it to stop NOW!
I started going out to meet girls only to get rejected 10 times a night and coming home alone and defeated. The ones I do get a date with are so meaningless and a waste of time. My game is off now because I am no longer having fun, but just doing it to get over my ex and fill in a void. She has dudes all over her and it's bothering me how easy it is for a girl to use that to her advantage. This never bothered me before, I actually encouraged her to date other guys when we broke up, but now I can't help feeling like I want her back. I know this may all be an illusion I'm falling for only to get me back into a terrible relationship that I may end up breaking up with again.
I need support guys and gals!
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Ughh im in the same position only it's reversed when I was with my bf he was soooo in love with me, but due to trust issues he broke up with me, now I'm constantly trying to get back with him but he says he's not ready.. him n I still kiss etc but I find myself wanting him more than when we were together. He even got with another girl (every said she was ugly n more rebound girl) they lasted less than 2mths. Ask yourself are you trying to get back with her because it's a challenge or you just dnt like the feeling of getting turned down? If you really like her slowly win her back it's not going to happen right away at the same time realize that you shld always make sure you know what u want because u never know when that person may be gone for good2
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