I am a mess and I don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Guy
Weekends to think? You taking care of kids? I have no sympathy for you. Like women have no sympathy for nice guys. He just got some on the side... and now he has to juggle kids.
Most Helpful Girl
Leave him. He clearly doesn't value your marriage and he didn't make "silly mistake", he made a decision to cheat anf as a result another woman is pregant to your husband. That is not going away, you will always have a reminder of his cheating for the rest of your life if you stay with him, not to mention you aren't respecting yourself. Don't stay with a jerk just because he's the father to your baby, that's not a good example for your child and he will most likey cause more emotional damage to you, and neither your or your child will be a priority because he has another kid coming now too.