I am 21 days away from delivering a beautiful baby girl. About 2 months ago, my husband and I starting fighting a lot. I admit, I got physical but I felt terrible about it and sought help, although its been slow going. My husband thought I wasn't doing enough and decided to start dating a girl he's been talking to online for awhile during his "weekends to think". So while I was at home, praying and crying and taking care of our kids, he was banging some chick from World of Warcraft. Now-surprise!-she's pregnant, too. He admits it was a huge mistake and that he doesn't want to be with her; he just wants to take care of his kids. I am all over the place. Some days I want to save our marriage. Some days I want to kick his ass, then find this chick and kick her ass, too. Some days I want to sink into a deep dark hole and never come out. Some days I want to focus on rebuilding my life and being an awesome single mom.
I am a mess and I don't know what to do.
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Sorry to hear that, but I wouldn't advice you to run or get divorce or even stay away from him, he did cheated yes, he has another kid yes but before you make any decision, think about your kids, My father has another girl with his first wife they get divorce because she cheated and got pregnant my dad saying that girl isn't his and we do believe him, your husband did come to you and confess his mistake and I think it's need a big courage to make a decision like his by telling you do truth, don't drew everything and think, yes other girl is pregnant but still there is a question : is she really pregnant or she is portending to be pregnant? that babe is it from your husband or she is just trying to make your husband take care of it by saying it his? there is a test called DNA and even if the babe is from your husband the damage has been done and there is nothing you can do to make this disappear try to keep your marriage and try to fix what can be fixed.0