Ok well, I need your help guys.. I've recently broken up from a long term relationship. Did the hole NC thing for about 6 weeks and things were going ok, getting myself back in shape, meeting new woman etc etc.
Since the breakup I've only seen my ex a couple of times, mainly with her mum, or just on her own. Then Last week, I almost bumped into my me while at work, we saw one another and as i passed her we exchanged smiles.. That night she contacted me via whats app, with a few pic messages, "the person you care for the most, is the person you'll let hurt you the most" and "How long before I'm just a memory" then another " There are some people you've just got to love from a distance"
So, ok we started to chat.. It was a little weird to start with, then she started asking what I'd been up to so i told her and the same for her! She also said how much she missed me, but didn't love me anymore.. Through out our conversation in an hour she said "I'm happy for you" 5 times. Then out of the blue, the next day she started asking me if I'd had any action since we broke up? saying that she was interested. I just shrugged it off and she took this as I had, because i wouldn't answer the questions and began to get a bit pushy and saying that she's hooked up with guys, but nothing happened.
She then came out with, I miss you, miss talking to you, I wish we could go back to the way it was.. and i miss the sex cos it was amazing.. Again i sort of shrugged it off! Then she started to snapchat me. A few pics, then messages about how i used to make her feel etc.. All of a sudden, she then just went quiet!!
Then yesterday, she messaged me.. Asking how i was doing, and that could we at least be civil? Next she came out with we're both over one another so thats good.. But when I said, that I'd not said that i was and she'd assumed it again she went off on one.
So.. I've left it! Said "well, if you fancy meeting up and catching up let me know.." Her reply was "Okay :)"
She's been in contact again over the past few days! This time its a constant I want to be friends with you etc. She's also said that I've not replied to if I miss or want her either, which i just responded I think you know the answer to that!
Again it then changed, to her saying that "alot can change in a week lol" when talking about flirting, The came out with the sex was amazing! I just responded, "I'm glad it was and that i hope he/they were able to give you what you wanted, and it was better than what we used to have" Funny that she didn't respond..