I have had a f buddy for a little while now. We don't see each other that often, maybe like twice a month, and we never go on dates. Sometimes we talk for hours after and he texts me almost everyday but that's about as deep as it gets. Lately he has communicated that he wouldn't like it if I dated and/or slept with someone else and that he hasn't slept with anyone else since we met. I feel like I'm not his girlfriend so he can't expect loyalty. I asked him if he wants me to be his girlfriend. Then he says he only wants sex. I'm confused. Is he catching feelings or marking his territory or what?
Most Helpful Guy
More like a territorial thing I think. I can see where he's coming from. Plus it's just safer that way. I mean you wouldn't want him sleeping around with a bunch of other women while still sleeping with you on the side, you can catch something.
So how does a guy find a friend with benefit? I'd like one, seriously.0
Most Helpful Girl
Trust your instincts I say. He is catching feelings i think. He does not want to admit it. Call it ego or whatever?
It happens. You are both human, have feelings. He might have feelings for you.
Suggest him a little bit of break, he will understand what he really wants.1