I have had a f buddy for a little while now. We don't see each other that often, maybe like twice a month, and we never go on dates. Sometimes we talk for hours after and he texts me almost everyday but that's about as deep as it gets. Lately he has communicated that he wouldn't like it if I dated and/or slept with someone else and that he hasn't slept with anyone else since we met. I feel like I'm not his girlfriend so he can't expect loyalty. I asked him if he wants me to be his girlfriend. Then he says he only wants sex. I'm confused. Is he catching feelings or marking his territory or what?
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sounds like he doesn't want to shake the status quo because he has those feelings. you went into it as f buddies, obviously to avoid those feelings, he is probably under the impression if he admitted to feelings he would be losing you. his indecisiveness to how to resolve this has left him a dog in the manger, wanting what he could only expect from admission, but avoiding it as to not lose your commitment. my money would definitely be on him having feelings though. f buddies always end one of two ways both move on before one falls for the other, or one always inevitably falls. attraction is attraction.0