Maybe if i can get her friendship back and work from there do you think i can get her back?
Most Helpful Girl
If she doesn't want the relationship, you owe it to her to respect her wishes and keep your distance. You can't force someone to feel as strongly as you do about them. If you want to remain friends, you have to respect her boundaries. If you push her and push her hoping she'll give into a relationship, you'll create accidental resentment, and only drive her further away. Another thing, it isn't up to your woman to make you the man that she wants. You have to own yourself and your responsibilities. Women aren't attracted to men who want their hand held and be taught a lesson, that's a parent-child relationship.
Give her the respect of space before you drive her away.
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe to you but in my eyes the relationship doesn't seem like more good then bad. Broken up twice on and off half the year constant arguing in those final months. Also who would want to be with someone who scarred them emotionally. She is right about you can't teach or make someone into someone they are you already have to be that way. She is in a relationship now so leave it be and move on. It's your first relationship and your trying to hang on to it too much. Let it and her go.