my boyfriend told me yesterday he's not ready yet for a serious relationship knowing that i want one.. so i snapped and told him that i would break it off anyways " which i dont " , then told him that i will block him n he responded with ok sorry.
I couldnt block him and i had some thoughts about resuming the relationship until he's ready to get serious. So the next day i told him that i dont want a serious relationship either.. after couple of mins i felt like am throwing my self at him so i added " anyways its done " .. and honestly i kinna wanted him to stop me from leaving after saying that be he didn't he just replied " ok " ..
I blocked him now but still confused about it?
" the relationship lasted 2 months and we love each other he spilled the L word 2 weeks ago ! So i don't know wut got into him "
What should i do?
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Instead of 'Blocking him,' you should have let be what was to Be when he told you he didn't want to be Anything heavy right now. You came back the next day and started in again with your own claws extended and with him probably not wanting to get into a head lock with you, he made lite of it... this is obviously his natural nature you have found out.
You both need to talk it out some more. I see that on his end he was this Honest John in telling you what he wanted and Didn't want, however, with you 'Blocking,' this is going to go down a beaten path where he may just have second thoughts of being with you now.
You both need to talk this out... You are still in the newbie stages of being in this relationship. During this period, things normally have to be ironed out and a Compromise has to be made.
It can go on like this.. it's a War of the Roses and I see the battle here has just begun.
If he has told you he 'loves' you, then you both must have talked something out. He wants you in his life, doesn't want to lose you or both of you and he has admitted feelings. However, this doesn't mean he wants to be hooked at the hip right now, so go slow with his flow.
Good luck. xx0