Most Helpful Girl
You have a big heart wow.. I totally understand you and I think you should tell her this.. Talk to her about it and explain that your love for those kids grew throughout those years and I hope she understands.. Talking and making everything clear should solve it.
Most Helpful Guy
Wow i know what you are going through , currently im still seeing this girl , but i dont know were i stand, and i like her kid a lot, 2 days ago she had a misscariage , she was pregnant from me, and it wasn't certain if she wanted the child or not, that hurted me a lot, knowing i could lose 3 persons, already lost 1, our child, this girl is also very irresponsbile in her behaviors, she has way to many secrets for those who care for her, and love her. try to talk to her, i know its hard, when she is a narcacist, but talk about her kids as well, or buy a gift for her kids when they have their birthday, the kids won't forget you.