My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me and has been sleeping with her ex. She's a narcissist and wants nothing to do with me. She is a single mother with 2 amazing kids (6 year old boy and 7 year old girl). I am heartbroken x 3. I keep going through the 4 stages of grief multiple times a day and I am absolutely destroyed by the fact that I will never see these kids who I have come to love. I can get over her, but the fact that the kids are gone is tearing me apart.
Most Helpful Girl
You have a big heart wow.. I totally understand you and I think you should tell her this.. Talk to her about it and explain that your love for those kids grew throughout those years and I hope she understands.. Talking and making everything clear should solve it.2
Most Helpful Guy
Wow i know what you are going through , currently im still seeing this girl , but i dont know were i stand, and i like her kid a lot, 2 days ago she had a misscariage , she was pregnant from me, and it wasn't certain if she wanted the child or not, that hurted me a lot, knowing i could lose 3 persons, already lost 1, our child, this girl is also very irresponsbile in her behaviors, she has way to many secrets for those who care for her, and love her. try to talk to her, i know its hard, when she is a narcacist, but talk about her kids as well, or buy a gift for her kids when they have their birthday, the kids won't forget you.1