Most Helpful Guy
This is tough and heavy. But you are young. There is no soul mates. There are soul mates. Sometimes we think that love should be the strongest we can feel. But may be it isn't that healthy to love that strong ! Life isn't a destination... the happiness you fight to create every day. Every day is a challenge , you can either not start it.. do your best and fall middle way.. or win it. And this is every day.
Dont hate men.. but don't make them the pivot of your life.
wish you the best
Most Helpful Girl
I just read your sad story, sweetie, and I am so sorry for your pain and many heartaches... you surely have not had it easy and it is Not always Easy to love someone unconditionally... especially when you put so much effort into it, endure so much together and had hoped and prayed you would be these two birds of a feather forever...
Now that it is over, you need to put your guard up once again and think of yourself, lick a few war wounds that have ended badly with the War of the roses and the long battle you fought. I always believe that everything that happens in life is in God's hands and what Happens to us is in our best interest, whether we accept it or not or cannot understand it.
Many of us have had curve balls thrown at us and with this, it makes us stronger many times and makes us realize what to do and not to do next time, should something or someone come along in our direction.
Take this time to do some soul searching. You have been on one helluva ride. But it is a lesson in life and in love that nothing is ever a guarantee but death and taxes and perhaps Old Mother Nature had her own motives in mind when this romance that you fought to keep glued together, fell apart and now it is time to move on. With ending up going down a beaten path, the road as rocky as it seems now, will someday clear a better and more lighted way for you.
Good luck, God bless... you are strong, you will find your way again... xx