Confusing? What have you learned that you wish you knew before marrying or divorcing? I'm currently on my way to a divorce and in the future I have vowed to work harder to make love last. Make him fall in love with me everyday and break out of day to day routines.
Divorcés:what advice would your divorced self give to your past married self about marriage?
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What Girls Said 3
I'm sure most will say "to never get married"
But this is kind of an interesting question so I'll watch here quietly1
I don't plan on getting married, so I don't have to worry about such things. You can have a life partner without a ceremony. :P
My advice to divorcing/divorced couples: get to know your partner better, before getting married. Have sex and live together for a bit, otherwise you're setting yourselves up for disappointment.
One of my mates has been dating for 7 years before they finally got married. He spent a fortune on the honeymoon and wedding - all she wanted (spent something around £5000 on a Disneyland trip and about £10,000 on the wedding). But they didn't live together AT ALL. Got divorced in less than a year, because they couldn't stand being around each other in the same home. And she took a good chunk of his inheritance (he's not rich, mind you, worked as a griller with me in a fast food chain some years back).2
Very very few things are worth fighting about.1
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