Confusing? What have you learned that you wish you knew before marrying or divorcing? I'm currently on my way to a divorce and in the future I have vowed to work harder to make love last. Make him fall in love with me everyday and break out of day to day routines.
Divorcés:what advice would your divorced self give to your past married self about marriage?
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I don't plan on getting married, so I don't have to worry about such things. You can have a life partner without a ceremony. :P
My advice to divorcing/divorced couples: get to know your partner better, before getting married. Have sex and live together for a bit, otherwise you're setting yourselves up for disappointment.
One of my mates has been dating for 7 years before they finally got married. He spent a fortune on the honeymoon and wedding - all she wanted (spent something around £5000 on a Disneyland trip and about £10,000 on the wedding). But they didn't live together AT ALL. Got divorced in less than a year, because they couldn't stand being around each other in the same home. And she took a good chunk of his inheritance (he's not rich, mind you, worked as a griller with me in a fast food chain some years back).2
I'm sure most will say "to never get married"
But this is kind of an interesting question so I'll watch here quietly1
Very very few things are worth fighting about.1
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