My ex bf and I do not have the title of being together. However, due to the past he felt I hurt him and is afraid I'm going to break his heart again. However, we do not have a normal ex bf and gf relationship we do everything as if we are together but it's less than a bf and gf wld do. I would like to invite him for Thanksgiving to spend time with me and my family but I'm afraid if he doesn't go (due to feeling pressured) I'm going to feel very hurt because I'm going to feel he's not making an effort. Do I have the right to feel that way or should I understand because we are not together i shouldn't be botherrd.. it's just like I said him and I aren't normal ex bf and gf.. I've even told him before if he would want me to go with somebody else and he says I never said that.. so someone please help me see what's the best way to take this. . hurt or accept if he doesn't go
Thanksgiving love should I not be bothered?
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What Girls Said 2
Ignore the bitchy "Anon" down there.
Relationships are complicated,
It's not always easy,
I've been there.
Me and my bf broke up for like 10 months. Even though we weren't "together" we were still acting like a couple. We've been together 6 years.
Although we never really got back "together" he says I'm his gf. It's hard to just end it with someone.
If he doesn't show up, or want to go. Take that as a sign, and start protecting yourself. He might just be slowly letting you go.
Titles dont mean anything, it's the actions. You guys still act like a couple.0
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It's your own problem, you brought this on yourself. You're not together so stop acting like you are. Why should you feel bad that your NOT bf doesn't want to be with your family? Doesn't make any sense0
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