I just found out my best friends bf of 6 years cheated on her. He was sending a co worker pics of his d*ck, vice versa, talking dirty, wanting to meet up, etc. I don't want to hear "well that's not cheating cause they didn't have sex" that's your opinion, to me it's cheating. Anyways, they live together and moved 2 hours away for college. Not completely sure what she is going to do at this point. :/ Not really looking for answers just looking for anyone else who has dealt w/ the same thing with their best friend or similar situations/venting lol
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If he's doing that to her now and she doesn't know, there's a very LOW likelihood he'll stop unless she knows.
Even if she knows and confronts him and beats the shit out of his ball (which he deserves, lol, you're right, it IS cheating), there's still a a likelihood he'll do it again.
Trust me, had it done to me more than once in my longest ever relationship. :)
If I were that friend, I'd want you to tell me. And if I were you, I'd tell her!
I also understand what a difficult position that puts you in. A way to make your position easier is to present her with EVIDENCE - simply telling her what you saw him doing may not convince her, and she may misdirect some rage at you :/ so be careful how you approach it :)2