I was seeing a man for a little over 3 month and yesterday I found out that he didn't like me past a causal relationship. I totally laid my heart out to him and all he could say was "I'm sorry", "I'm extremely busy right now" (he's always busy with his grad work) and "I like you as a person." I feel like he lead me on but that's a whole different story. He's asking if we can still be "friendly." I asked him if give him back the few items that he gave me while he was on his break at work on Monday and he kept saying "I'll come by [your place] and get it sometime soon".
What I'm asking is, do you think he going to drag this out by thinking that if he waits me out that he could have sex with me some more? I'm not doing that again and all I wan't to do is give him back is stuff and go away.
I asked him if I can give him back the few items that he gave me while he was on his break at work on Monday and he kept saying "I'll come by [your place] and get it sometime soon".
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YOU CONTROL THIS... not him. That simple.
So you either bag his stuff up and tell him you will bring it to his work or drop it off or some other public. Or you tell him he can come and get it when it is both convenient to the two of you. then let him give you some options. If nothing works, then just do your thing and maybe he never gets his stuff... but don't play his game.0