okay so this is my situation I was with this girl for a month and this happens to be our second break up after the first break up I kept talking to her and we got back together she was complaining about how much she missed me. And now she broke up with me 2 days ago I had been ignoring her strictly no contact she recently texted me a few times and even called me my question is how long do you think I should wait until I contact her and then next time she calls me what do you think I should say to her I do love this girl and I want things to work out but I am willing to keep no contact as long as it takes I want her to beg for me back and she is needy and I know she will I just do not want to wait too long and have her think I am NOT interested can you guys and girls please give me your best advice I am new to this website and really do need relationship help all my relationships in the past I've been very bad thank you for all your help hope to hear your answer soon.
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At this website you will find out real quick that just because YOU asked the question, doesn't mean you are the victim. In fact in this case you BECAME the guilty party. You guys are doing a power struggle thing. this means your relationship is going to go kaput at some point if both of you don't stop playing games. she broke up with you twice in one month, it means she's afraid of something and is keeping one leg outside the door even though she likes you. You on the other hand are here saying "how long should I wait" "i want her to beg me" "i don't want her to think I'm not interested"
No wonder your other ones were bad. Its time for you to stand up, stick up, and be real. break ups are a stress.. and if she can keep doing it like changing underwear, you have to make it clear that if she does that shit again... she better mean it because you won't come back. To do that, you have to call/text her (scrap this "how long" crap) contact her and let her know you want her back but if she pulls the break up stunt again, she loses you. You kill 3 birds with that move.0