So about a month ago, my ex reached out to me. She said she missed me and asked to be friends. I asked if we could talk about it and she changed her mind. She said she needed to think about it. After two and a half weeks of nothing, she said that it would be too difficult to be friends because of all the drama in our relationship (she causes most of it), she had no hard feelings and we should move on and not dwell in the past. I said nothing. That was a month ago, and for some reason, I finally replied and said this:
I respect your decision. I wish you happiness and all that you seek. Take care.
If you received this, what would you think? Was it a noble message? Should I have not said anything at all? Opinions please.
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I don't buy into the no contact stuff. If you want to contact her or she wants to contact you it's no big deal. I don't understand why it necessary to completely break all contact when you break up. I stayed in contact with every girl I ever dated.
The messages you two sent to each other are fine. It shows you have no hard feelings. That's a hell of a lot better than couples who wind up hating each other.
It's about self discipline. If two people keep getting back together and keep having the same problems over and over, then maybe NC is called for. But in most cases it shouldn't be needed. But you guys don't seem to fall into that category, so it all seems fine.0