I sent this text to my ex after we spoke last night: I want to be in your life as your gf u r my friend and lover & I want to be with you. You know I am not desperate its that we ar so good togehter we r passion and comfort we fit. Our friends want us happy and we were happy together can be again. You told me u loved me and I you feelings don't just stop- take time and space and this about it I will too.
Text to maybe get the ex back?
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I think it's positive. A negative response would've been either no response or something like, "Sorry, but I still don't think we're meant to be together."
However, it really depends on the nature of your breakup. Did you split up because of a difficult but fixable problem, like cheating or growing apart? Or was it because one of you was unwilling or unable to make a sacrifice for the other, ie having kids or relocating? If it were because of one of the latter reasons, his "I will" might be giving you false hope. If his stance or feelings haven't changed and he still thinks you two aren't supposed to be together, he could have just been saying "I will" to be polite. But if you've talked about getting back together and he's considering it, I'd say it's a positive response. Good luck. :)0
I think you should take the face value. He will think, or he may think, but the final thought isn't clear yet. I'd be prepared for all kinds of results.
Actually myself is struggling if I should contact my ex for second chance. I don't know if I just text straight out of my intention, or start with more gentle approach such as I saw a movie blabla -- he will get my intention anyway, but not too stressed to respond. It's just hard when you care about him. Be prepared and love yourself anyway.0
Just give it time0
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