Okay so me an this guy I was seeing for a year and a half ended things with me. We've been on and off but I still think he has feelings for me.
His ex who was his first love cheated on him 3 years ago. Which he has never really gotten over. He admitted this to me when he ended it the first time & opened up and said he was just scared of getting hurt again, as I'm the first girl since the split he's actually genuinely really liked. Things were getting serious at this point and he was pushing me away.
Things ended badly between us. We both hurt each other. I regret it. He said we can't be friends because we can't JUST be friends. The chemistry is too much for us. He said he's seeing someone else after a week of us ending in an argument. (Not sure how true) I ended up blocking him on everything. I still love him & care for him.
Is there any chance he will realise how much he's fucked up and come back? We did argue in the end a lot, but that was due to him pushing me away.
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there may be a chance. the problem I see with him, and which should preclude you from dating him, is that he still hasn't gotten over the betrayal in previous relationships. you can't carry that bag into other relationships, it's essentially like trying to drive a car on three flat tires. sure it may work but it will be incredibly painful. this guy needs to sort things out within himself mentally before he can ever expect to be in a healthy relationships0