He took a sudden change, which to me was really strange. He told me he had to get his life together. He lives alone, but he told me he was moving in with a family member to save money and so his child could go to a better school. I found this weird, because why move out if you're getting your child back and both go live with a family member? I STILL don't understand that! He told me that I deserve way better and that I could do much better than him. I agreed and told him to figure out his life and that he was in no state of mind to be in a relationship. He still wanted to stay in touch and asked if I would want to go out with him every once in a while. He still wanted to keep me around. I said no! Once it's over, it's done with. He went on about how he's coming back to me and how I've been the best thing to walk into his life in a long time. I made it clear that I was not going to be a part time fling, friend or anything and that it was not fair to bring me into his life full of uncertainties.
After the conversation, we hung up and he's gone completely cold. No text, no calls, nothing! I figured that if he really loved or even cared about me or what we had, that he'd at least try to make a small effort to see how I'm doing or feeling. I've heard nothing. I refuse to reach out to him, just simply because the way everything turned out was really weird and it does not make sense. We went from totally happy to nothing in less than a week! I don't get it.
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This is a classic case of the woman logic "no means yes".
You literally told him "don't talk to me. If we aren't dating I don't want anything" but are saddened he doesn't o against your desires and completely disrespect your wishes entirely to try and talk to you.
Don't tell a man no when you mean yes. He's going to take the no and move on if he has any respect for you as a person.1