My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I saw him yesterday to pick up some belongings. We had lived together for 2 years and were very much in love. Like ridiculously. He would say he wanted to marry me and we had the same hopes and everything. It was that good.
I asked him one day, he was slightly stressed, if he wanted to marry me - I know it was stupid because he had told me before that he wanted to - and he said he didn't know. I flipped out, packed my bags and left. I avoided contact for about 2 weeks after an initial 2 weeks of trying to win him back. I then went to pick up my stuff. He looked sad, he kept hugging me, I managed to get him to kiss me though he was reluctant at first. Now I'm worried this may have destroyed my chances of winning him back. Is this the case? What should my next step to winning him back be? I've apologised for walking out and everything but he seems pretty set but I know that there isn't any other reason. Help!
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now that is childish. i stopped being amazed last summer, when something happened to me. (love related of course)
Just apologize (again) for walking out and say you want to be with him. If he does not accept it, then you should accept his decision.
let me put it this way. You walked out on him for such a ridiculous reason because of a discussion that honestly shouldn't have happened. The man was stressed and you put even more stress on his shoulders. Not good. No wonder he said no.
Plus, by walking out, you showed, you have a really short fuse. Instability when he was already stressed out. "why the hell should i take her back, just so she can take her stuff and leave when something is not right".3