Am I to blame? Am I in the wrong? Just a lost girl!!!
What Guys Said 1
This is the problem with having a relationship with a single dad. The mom is always going to be there, maybe just a little or maybe a lot but she will always be there. If you love him and you miss him somuch you are going to have to deal with it. It sucks it does but thats just how it is, you know. The ex shouldn't be abusive either though so just watch out for that and try to communicate your thoughts and feelings with him as much as you can :) Just my opinion.
What Girls Said 1
Online or Offline relationship, LostGirl 87, there are going to be problems and some minor, sometimes serious "Disagreements' to iron out, when beginning a new beguine with someone whom you got right into a relationship with quickly. You didn't give yourselves a chance to really know one another and it seems now, you are finding out things for yourself With------I didn't want a 3 way relationship.
You both have baggage to boot. However, it would appear, without all the writing on the wall, that His "EX" is still in the picture and it could very well be turn into what I refer to as a Triangle Threesome," or what you call something different... no matter How you slice the cake here she is not going away too soon, I am afraid. This happens a lot in a new relationship when one or both parties have others, including a ghost from the past, attached to their caboose, it Isn't over because they are right there to spoil the broth and still be chief cook and bottle washer, even more so when you're now together.
You both need to talk things out and do some compromising. Already there are wrinkles and crinkles and if something isn't smoothed out, it just may end up to be, if it hopefully now Isn't A-----Not heard nothing since.
He may be just cooling down for now, sweetie, give him time, space to get over his hissy fit. And if he should stop putting you on this pay no mind list, then you both need to work together as two birds of a feather and get on the same page... don't let a skeleton still in the closet rattle your chains nor other trivial things or even Bigger headaches cause your relationship to go dead in the water or become a train wreck before it has had a chance to get off the ground.
In the case of the party, with him being this party pooper, yes, he was in the wrong and knew about the party and should have considered you and your daughter's feelings more... he broke his promise and may break many more... open lines of convo is desperately needed.
Good luck. xx
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