He f*cked up. I told him i need some time alone and for him to not contact me at all. I would contact him when i'm ready.
What would be more hurtful, if i never contact him at all and leave him waiting until he figures it out on his own?
Or tell him off about his action and then tell him its over?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't see how being vengeful helps improve your life. If you absolutely are positive you two are done, just tell him it's over. No need to explain it, and there's no need to make it hurtful.
If you want, you can explain why you're breaking it off. Perhaps it's something he could improve upon, which will make the next girl he meets a happy person and avoid the hurt you are experiencing. If not for him, why not explain for her sake?
I won't intrude and ask what's wrong, but I hope you feel better ;)1
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Most Helpful Girl
Or you could act like a mature adult, calmly and directly tell him you're done with the relationship and stick with your decision, and move on with your life?
Just throwin out ideas here.0