Most Helpful Guy
If things had been going "perfectly fine" then he would not have ended things. So they were "perfectly fine' for you. I learned a hard lesson in my divorce. If your the only one fighting to keep 2 people together it is a lost cause. I tried everything I possibly could. I have still been trying over the last 11 months. even though she cheated on me at least the last 2 years. We were together 25 years. I love her unconditionally.
you need to put it all out there or you will have regrets. dont be afraid to be anything since it won't matter if your not together. But realize if he doesn't have feelings then nothing will come of it.
Most Helpful Girl
My ex broke up with me right out of the blue about 9 months ago, and its been 9 months since he and I have talked honestly. I am sorry that happened to you but you aren't alone I promise. I lost feelings for my ex with time though and I don't talk to him or anything. Maybe you two had the wrong timing or something or maybe he doesn't really know what he wants in a women or doesn't know what kind of relationship he wants. Hang in there though and you'll get through it, it could take days or weeks or months or up to a year. It probably isn't you, maybe he just isn't ready for a relationship who knows. I would just let him be and keep my feelings to myself, don't try to pour your heart out to him just try to be calm and say what you need to say. I don't like it when guys do that, just break up with someone right out of the blue.