Broke up months ago after two year relationship. Broke ties then he asked to be friends and was sorry for the pain he put me through. A few days later a death in my family occurred and be pushed to be here for me. I let him. Then he asked me for boyfriend/girlfriend things and I said no. He grew distant the less I let him talk about it and then I invited his kid to mines bday and he said he was blocking me because I can't keep it friends, that he feels I circle to the past. Is he projecting this on me or is this how he is really thinking?