So my boyfriend and I broke up on November 1st. We were together for almost two years and I have since found out that as of November 14th he has been dating someone else. I am pretty shocked at how soon he jumped into something new but I really feel like it's a rebound. I would really like to get back together with him. I'm not sure how to handle the situation. He does not know that I know about his new relationship as I found out from one of his family members. I'm struggling because he still texts me. He often says thing like he still really loves and misses me. Every time we text he asks several questions about my life and my daughter, who he was very close to. I know he is hurt because a broke up with him, at times he seems pretty angry about it. He says he just needs some time. What is interesting is we still have a joint cell phone plan and joint car insurance. I have tried to get him to separate both of those things but he gets angry and comes up with some accuse as to why he won't.
I guess I'm just confused because if he's really done then why does he still contact me and answer when I contact him? Why is he hiding his new relationship? Why isn't he doing his best to separate his financial life from mine?
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I'm sorry but I get how you feel. But YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM. As someone who is going through a break up as a dumpee I can understand this guys pain, but I don't get yours.
If you was finished with your ex (this guy) why should you care what he does, who he sees, how he acts? You obviously still care & love him so why break up with him? He still obviously is in love with you. & if your not willing to try things again then just leave him be & let him get through this alone! He's met someone (defo a rebound) just let him be.
Why break up with him if you feel this way? For someone who's been dumped & my ex giving me mixed signals I can feel his pain & why he's acting the way he is.0