My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together for 4 months while we were away in an internship program. I fell in love with her.. however, there were trust issues from my end caused by different forms of communication. We constantly misinterpreted each others stuff and i already have issues dealing with emotions. So one night, she decides to end it after I send her a full text saying that she’s gonna break up with me. She said that she couldn’t trust that i’d get better and she couldn’t deal with this anymore. I broke down and cried and begged…and she stormed out saying “it’s over, deal with it”. I texted her later on that night, apologizing for losing my cool and saying that I agreed with her. That night I found this sight and began my 30 days and “healing process”. 2 weeks later, I texted her “hey”. no response, and i had to start my process again. Keep in mind that this whole time, I was still friends with her on Facebook, tumblr, Skype and linkdin. 3 weeks later, she unfollows me on tumblr and unfriends me on Facebook. 2 weeks later, I messaged her on Facebook talking about Dr. Who, a show I started watching because of her. I said “Just finished the first series of Dr. Who. Loved it :) How are you doing?” A day later, she says “You need to stop communicating with me. I don’t want to hear from you anymore. I unfriended you and if you keep this up, I will block you”. I apologized and said “block me if you want” and boom, she did. Some friends have even told me that before she unfriended me, she was looking at my Facebook a lot. However, I’m officially in constant pain from this whole ordeal. I want her back and am following the steps, but the healing process is taking long and I've failed classes in school and work. She has removed me from Skype after i blocked her a few weeks ago. I've gotten really depressed, downloaded 8 dating apps, have gotten with my exs, feel so isolated... any advice?
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wow, this seems like a very complicated situation. She may be the kind of girl who simply can't have contact with anyone she is trying to get over. She very well could have been in love with you as much as you with her and the break up probably hurt her as it did you. I can't say for sure but that's what it sounds like. I say you should keep your distance for her sake and respect for her. I understand break ups are so hard and you are hurting but everything happens for a reason. Keep your head up maybe in the future you will both have grown and reached new levels of maturity and work out something then. but for now keep focusing on yourself and making yourself happy. Good luck to you0