Most Helpful Girl
wow, this seems like a very complicated situation. She may be the kind of girl who simply can't have contact with anyone she is trying to get over. She very well could have been in love with you as much as you with her and the break up probably hurt her as it did you. I can't say for sure but that's what it sounds like. I say you should keep your distance for her sake and respect for her. I understand break ups are so hard and you are hurting but everything happens for a reason. Keep your head up maybe in the future you will both have grown and reached new levels of maturity and work out something then. but for now keep focusing on yourself and making yourself happy. Good luck to you
Most Helpful Guy
Realize that women aren't that important. No girl is worth more than your happiness and peace of mind. Focus on developing new skills, hobbies, getting better at school and work. Those are infinitely more important than a girl. There are are billions of women on Earth, it's almost impossible not to find an untold number of girls you'll get along with. Focus on yourself for now. Start valuing yourself, and the best way to do that is to become valuable. Don't speak to that girl again, she's toxic for you. Start asking out other girls too, but date just for fun, don't get into relationships, and try to see multiple girls, it will teach you not to idealize one person.