So here's the thing. I don't love my wife anymore. I don't know if I ever truly did. I don't want to be with her anymore. Too easy right? Well it isn't. We have three kids together, and I still care about her. She's trying so hard to get past all the crap that we argue and fight about and causes tension between us, but I'm not anymore, and she's noticed. In short, I've given up. I don't want this to work, because I know that in a couple months, another year, whatever, it's going to be the same song and dance all over again. I'm being an asshole, she I know that I am, but I can't stop being one. She's trying so hard to ignore the rude comments and bad attitude, but I just don't care. I'm depressed and feel trapped, and I want out, but I don't want to hurt her anymore. How do I break this to her gently?
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You loved her once, enough to marry her. Think about you children and if you're gonna miss her and them, and being in a united family, if you leave. If it's hell and you truly want out, sit her down and let her know how you feel instead of brushing things off and not caring because you don't want to regret your decision whether its leaving or staying. Everything is great and fun when u meet somebody, when you settle down things are slow and not as exciting. Thats how it works. Really dig deep and find out if this woman and family unity is worth leaving. Good luck.1