Most Helpful Girl
You loved her once, enough to marry her. Think about you children and if you're gonna miss her and them, and being in a united family, if you leave. If it's hell and you truly want out, sit her down and let her know how you feel instead of brushing things off and not caring because you don't want to regret your decision whether its leaving or staying. Everything is great and fun when u meet somebody, when you settle down things are slow and not as exciting. Thats how it works. Really dig deep and find out if this woman and family unity is worth leaving. Good luck.