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only if the girl was my friend, then yes. if it's just some stranger, then no. i get the feeling that you are asking this because you are 'the other girl' and you feel like it is your responsibility to tell his gf. if you aren't friends with her, then you don't owe her anything, I mean, it sucks that her boyfriend is a cheater, but if he didn't cheat on her with you, he would have with someone else. I would just let them handle their problems.
This is a very complicated question. Some girls would want to know, some girls would want to go on not knowing. If you feel that it would be best for you to tell, I would recommend not doing it in person, just because people tend to get really upset when they find out that their boyfriend/girlfriend has cheated on them.
I think she'd rather find out from her boyfriend and not the other girl. What's the point of her being the one to tell it? She messed with her man and it's not like she has a relationship with her. She would just end up taking her frustrations out on her.
I would rather my boyfriend tell me than the girl he cheated on me with. If he just sat down and told me what happened I wouldn't lose complete trust in him. But if I found out from the girl, I would wonder if he ever planned on saying anything and then I wouldn't be able to trust him at all.
I think the girl would want to find out from her boyfriend.. So he can explain what happened, apologize etc. I would rather find out from him than for someone to come up and tell me my boyfriend cheated with them. Just my opinion :)
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