Most Helpful Guy
Don't bother. There are better people.
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him to shit or get off the pot.
He shouldn't have to "decide" want he wants, since he does maybe it's clear he isn't ready to step-up and be the man and father you and your daughter need him to be. You have to do what is best for your child, and he needs to realize that, if he can't be the man/father y'all need him to be, that you need to move on with your life without being in a relationship with him. I'm sure this very hard for you and whatever happens it won't be easy either way. Good Luck to you and your baby girl.