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I understand what you mean. It's hard to think of settling down with one person for the rest of your life.
But this is douchy... I know a guy whose been married for a very long time, had like, 7 kids with a woman and then lost a butt load of weight. He left her as soon as he lost weight because of the same reason that you're describing... But it's incredibly selfish. Look at it from her position, she's given you ELEVEN years, That's a really long time and literally almost half of your life (roughly)
There is no "nice" way to tell her that you want to be free from an 11 yr relationship.
I think a girl who'd still want you after what you've told her, Is definitely a girl worth keeping.
But I'm not you, and I'm sure I don't know every detail.
I just want you to reconsider.
If any of your future girlfriends found out that you turned away a perfectly good woman purely because you got tired of her and wanted to feel young? I'm just gonna go out and tell you that they're not gonna be happy and that is certainly not the kind of guy I would go for
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