My parents and friends really approve of him and say to me how lucky I am to have found someone so lovely and who cares so much. I agree with them but at the same time I think maybe it's all just the wrong time...
Can any of you advise me? :/
Most Helpful Guy
if you aren't truly into it, then perhaps you need to take a break. Tell him you need to get your mind straight and just aren't ready for anything more right now. It is going to hurt him and probably you, but i think you need the time.
Most Helpful Girl
Be honest and open and tell your boyfriend how you feel. There's nothing wrong explaining you feel smothered or guilty or still depressed due to the death. If he truly cares for you he'll understand and respect your words. Don't worry about hurting his feelings when you're hurting yourself. Trust me, I bet he would be hurt more knowing you've been wearing a mask to try to keep him happy. And if you do need a break, don't let other people guilt you into keeping him. But from the tone of the text I think you're more depressed than wanting to just end things completely. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you're able to find your happiness again. :)