He was being distant all week cause he is working a lot and has other problems. Messaging me but not as much. I even asked him what's up and he said its not me he's stressed but I need to do what's best for me. Then tonight I find out from a friend that he texted a girl he had a crush on before he met me that he had stopped talking to when he met me. He asked her to grab a drink with another female friend. The girl asked him what about your girlfriend. He said "I don't know if the relationship is really going to work"
Meanwhile he never was honest with me about it even after I had a talk with him!! I got so mad so I dumped him.
Did I do the right thing? It's so wrong of him after not seeing me all week only messaging me sporadically and not even being honest that he has doubts about the relationship when I asked him.
He said he was "fine with how things are" when I broke up with him. He has not seen me all week or called me by phone.
Basically he was trying to meet up with his old crush who he dropped for me because he wasn't sure he wanted to stay with me while keeping me on the back burner and barely ever seeing me.
Most Helpful Guy
yes... proud of you... you did the right thing... forger all about him, you deserve better.1
Most Helpful Girl
He said "I don't know if the relationship is really going to work"
Of course you did the right thing. You dodged a bullet right there girl. Can't stand guys who are too coward to just leave a girl instead of going behind her back. What he did right there was disrespectful towards you and your relationship. You deserve someone far better who will not say crap like that behind your back to other people. If the relationship isn't working you should be the FIRST to know. Not some other random person. I sincerely know you will find another great guy. He's not the only one.1