How did your spouse's affair impact your life and how long from finding out about it are you now?

If you're the one who was unfaithful, please feel free to say how your lapse changed life from your point of view too.
  • Ruined everything, I carry bitterness
    Vote A
  • Freed me from dealing with a serial cheater
    Vote B
  • I don't know where to go from here
    Vote C
  • In denial
    Vote D
  • Our marriage recovered and strengthened
    Vote E
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Most Helpful Girl

  • After about 8 months of horrible, scary fights and arguments we are okay and getting stronger every day. I am glad I chose to forgive him, but the past few months have been horrible.


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What Girls Said 2

  • i'll vote on my mom's behalf. A.

  • I was the one who was unfaithful, and we recovered and so far things seem to be a lot stronger between us. My affair highlighted to him even more the issues we were having in our relationship long before it happened. Despite talking to him about it for YEARS, nothing changed. I wasn't happy, and fell in a trap when I was approached by a guy who made me feel amazing. I ended it not long after, and my partner found out. It's been about 4 months since he found out, 6 months since the affair ended. We have our ups and downs but we communicate so much better which is a massive positive.


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