His last girlfriend has given me a real insight into his infidelity and has proved that he has been a serial cheat behind my back for years. He says he will get help with his problem and will do whatever it takes to get my trust back. Should I give him a chance to redeem himself?
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I don't think I would give him a chance. More importantly, I don't think I could. Such massive betrayal would undoubtedly break something inside of me and it wouldn't be possible for me to trust this person and be comfortable with this person ever again.
Nobody has ever cheated on me, but I always thought that I'd never be able to forgive it. But whenever I was thinking about it, I imagined being cheated on with one person. At least five people and for several years, that would be much more than I could handle. Even if he promises to get help with his problem, he could have gotten it after the first time at the latest. To know that someone has abused my trust for that long and willingly hurt me, no way, I would never ever forgive that.0