Two days ago the love of my life left me and it was really terrible. Anyways, now when I see a happy couple, all I think about is "I remember when that was me and Shawn." Or "I wish that was me and Shawn". And I think the whole break up ordeal was my fault, i pissed him off and he told me to leave him alone from now on and he was gone, just like that and I apologized and tried to get him to stay but he wouldn't hear it. I keep beating myself up and I really miss him so much and seeing happy couples only makes me miss him more and more depressed. I just want him back. Why can't I be happy for my friends and family members with boyfriends or girlfriends? I'm 18 in 6 days and sooooo in love with my ex.
When you've just had a terrible 'break up' why can't you be happy for other happy couples?
What Guys Said 4
There is a saying "Misery likes company." And in this case it is true. You will eventually get over it.1
It's because Shawn is still with you in your heart but not in body. :(1
Because it's what you had and something you will again. But I can empathize. But you're young. Don't worry.1
Because your wallowing in your own self pity. Right now the only thing that matters is how you feel, and that feeling is being projected on everything you see.0
What Girls Said 3
As you know, I know the feeling. I hate seeing people all lovey and cutesy and in love and even though some people actually are annoying about it, I find everyone like that annoying whether they really are or not. I miss my guy a ton and when I see my friends with boyfriends or they ask me about my guy I just roll my eyes and try not to make any smart comments.
It is so hard to think abound them being happy when I was a hundred times happier with my guy and it kills me to know that the person they're with isn't worth their time. I said that to one of my friends not too long ago and she freaked out and accused me of being jealous when I was just warning her that she'd get hurt. A week later, she was hurt. Bad. And we haven't talked since.1
I'm the same way, I think everyone is. When I'm going through a breakup and my friends are talking about their relationship with their bfs it pisses me off. I think about how I used to be happy with him and how I wish we were still like that and it annoys me that other people experience that happiness when I can't :(1
Is anyone really happy?1
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