So about a month ago she started texting, calling, etc. last week she wanted to meet to talk so I agreed. She spent the entire day texting and calling me right up till the end of the night. We met and talked. Long story short is I told her that I will not share her with anyone, which is the same thing I told her when I went no contact shortly after I found out she was in another relationship. I wished them the best and walked away.
So she tells me the other day that she was going to tell her new guy that she was going to start seeing me again and end things with him.
I told her that if that's what she was going to do it had to be for her and not for me. Again in the interest of keeping this shorter, the next days following that I barely heard from her AND I found out she was still with her new guy.
SOO, I tried calling her once then sent her a message similar to the last time. I told her that this wouldn't work for me, wished them the best and told her if things change she knows how to find me.
She responded to nothing, including the Merry Christmas message I sent yesterday. (She sent it on Thanksgiving and since our breakup was amicable I figured I would reciprocate for Xmas)
So my question here is does anyone have an opinion on what's going on here?
I'm in a strange place right now. I no longer feel this overwhelming need to have her back but I am open to the idea if the conditions are right. At the same time though I'm not going to play games. Can anyone help me figure this out a little bit? Thank you