Can I still fight for her?

My gf and i broke up because she was doubting and her doubt affected me. It wasn't a bad breakup, we lived together and we had a relationship for a 1,5 year. I talked to her a couple f days ago and told her i still love her. She answered that she was a mess at the moment and she couldn't give me what i want. She didn't trust her in a relationship at the moment... In these 3 months apart, there was a guy who was there for her at the right moment and made her feel special... There was almost a moment where things could happen but he backed away because he felt that she wanted to do more... I asked her if she had feelings for him, if she wanted to spend her life with him... but she said, it had nothing to do with feelings, he was just there at the right moments... She then acknowledged that it wasn't right and she needed time alone. It hurt like hell and i said to her, i only wanted to bf her bf and not just her friend because i just love her too much.. if she changed her mind she could give me a call... But i wouldn't be the one who'll contact her. Is there still hope or is it over? :) can i do smth about it or not?

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  • Fiight for her. Call her more often and show her that you're concern about her. Don't expect anything yet but just be there for her. Show her that you love her and that you care for her. Earn her love again.

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  • Honestly, you need to stop waiting on her & move on. She's giving you excuses on why she doesn't want to settle down. Truth is, she just doesn't want to settle down with you. Whether she knows what she wants or not is irrelevant, as this is going to cause you more distress than you deserve. In time, MAYBE she'll come around. But now's not the time, & you have life to live. I'm sorry this happened to you, I truly am. But it's not the end of the world, & there are plenty of women out there who would be more than happy to settle down with a good, quality man.

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  • nothing you can do. She wants some time alone. I think you need to move on. If there is any chance of getting back together. It will have to be her choice. Not yours.

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  • There is nothing greater than Love that dies. Fight for it so that it can leave a deeper scar.

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  • You stated what you wanted and now you should just walk away and never look back.
    If she contacts you, assume she wants to see you and make a definite date at a definite time.

    If she doesn't want to commit to a date, say "okay, give me a call when you change your mind, I gotta run, bye" if she still has any interest she'll try to contact you again. If not, then she doesn't want you anymore.

    I know that sounds hard, but it is what it is.

    Let her come to you and try to earn you back if that's what you want. She needs time and space away from you in order for her to be able to miss you.

    You should perceive yourself as a catch and never settle for anything less than a person who is genuinely interested in you and wants you as much as you deserve.

    God speed man, I know what you're going through.

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