He broke up with me in September after one year of dating, because he suddenly had doubts and was unsure. He cried for a week, came back upologized for everything and wanted to gibe us a chance because he loves me but he can't bare the thought of hurting me su much again (i was devasted when he broke off the week before). But a week later he broke it off crying again.
We see each other every day because we are in the same courses at universitiy. He is really nice to me and smiles a lot. He is very helpful towards me but at the same time keeps his distance.
The two months before the break up were pretty tough, i was very sick, had surgery and i was very tired mentally and physically. BEcause of that and because my hometown is somewhere else we didn't so so much of each other during that time). He was stressed out because of work. So we had missunderstandigs but in the entire year of our relationship we never had a big fight. Not once. We were really good together (we are both 24) and he always imagend our next trips and future.
I just don't know what happened. He said the "fighting" was the reason. To a friend he said he had to make that decision for himself at the moment but he can't rule out his feelings will chance again.
But I still think we are really good together and I love and miss him. But I know I can't tell him or can I? Or will i push him further away? Should I make a move or wait more. As a guy would you want to be left alone?
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Since I was dumped too I feel your pain, of course I want to make a move but, it won't accomplish anything. Well for me that is since she left me for her ex. But if I was him Id want you to contact me telling how you felt. But see he was the dumper so it's always harder since he wanted to break up verses being the dumpee who wanted to stay.0