I fell absolutely in love with this girl. she was in love with me also. she's also getting a place with a mutual friend and so I figured we'd be able to hang out and do stuff we couldn't really do before. I don't mean just sexually either.
Anyway about 4 days ago she texts me to let me know that her parents are getting a divorce and that she can't get into a relationship right now. Basically I got dumped.
I've been nothing but supportive of this girl, and never judging or abusive or anything. She says she just needs time and isn't sure of what her feelings will be in a month.
Anyway I knew something was up the day before she broke up with me and I talked to the mutual friend and the friend said that the girl I was with confided to her that she hoped we would work out and loved me and so I was probably just nervous since I had put my feelings out there recently.
Anyway I haven't taken this very well and I'm going to try to wait since it's not really my fault that she decided to end things. Our friend says she'll let me know when my ex seems ready to try again.
Any idea of how long this will be or what I can do to get her back?
I'm utterly perplexed over this.
i basically found out that she dumped me for another guy. A guy she had been with before me.
she dumped me with the "parents are getting divorce" excuse and then a week later started dating someone else.
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Send her flowers and tell her that you hope she feels better soon and you are there for her if she needs anything. Pretty much all you can do, then just be patient. It'll work out!