I guess my question is about why I haven't heard anything from her for so long? and she did live rather close to me and her parents still live in this town so she must of been back for holidays. guess I wonder is the no contact thing normal for such a situation? we never like agreed to keep in touch or decided it be best not to try. she just sort of like disappeared and I never hear anything from her and even quick genuine attempts online to see what she's up to don't get a reply back , the whole situation is kind of buging me and find it frustrating to not even hear a thing from her or there to be any interest in even staying casual friends
Most Helpful Girl
I'm in the same boat. You will never get closure or know why. But if you dwell on it you will go out of your mind instead. Just imagine instead that she did like you, misses you in some capacity and leave it like that. Sometimes not knowing is the best thing
Most Helpful Guy
she has moved on. Some people do it that way, some people want to stay in touch. She doesn't.