My ex and I did not break up on good terms. I am returning his things this Sunday at church and say this to him "I know we didn't end on good terms, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for showing me that I have a lot of growing up to do, and establishing my relationship with the lord. Whether you like it or not, you will always have a place in my heart. But maybe one day we could try this again. So I guess this is goodbye" good idea or bad?