Most Helpful Guy
well you need to cut the affair asap. that is a recipe for destruction. if your husband were to find out he could divorce you, take your child and really leave you with nothing... typically infidelity will result in no alimony during a divorce proceeding.
I think if you are just no longer in love you need to broach the subject of divorce to your spouse. explaining that maybe you wait until your son is in college or 18 but that you think it's unfair to you and him to be in a relationship in which you aren't in love with your partner
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Most Helpful Girl
You need to remain firm in your desire for him to go. Say it and mean it. Or, do like I did and YOU leave. I found an apartment close enough to make shared custody of the kid easy, signed the lease, told him and left. We are currently very good friends now and ate drama free. It takes balls of steel but you can do it.