My boyfriend ended it with me on Monday he said our relationship changed, he wasn't happy, bored & wanted to be free, but he kept giving mixed signals saying a break and ATM he don't want to be with me, and on Tuesday blocked me from everything to prevent me talking to him, I was trying & trying to not get him to leave! I did make a new fb account because I couldn't bare it. And I sent him so many messages over the past few days, but he ignored me, and now he's blocked that account. He said he loved me but how could he do this to me? He is already talking to other girls, I can't bare the thought of him being with anyone but me! He was so perfect as a boyfriend! what should I do now:(I want him back, but he's stubborn and I think this is it for us:( we was together for two years, had a great relationship, he was my first love and real relationship, he was my first everything... I'm devistated! I generally don't think I'll be able to find anyone like him or no one will compare to what we had!
Most Helpful Guy
I think your exaggerating some of the points about just loosing a boy.
Just think about it, he has said it's over and is already moving on, it seems you need to do the same and the way to do that is to forget everything to do with this guy and look at everyone else in a positive way. The way you blocked that new guy was a bit harsh, just cos someone broke up with you doesn't mean you should be so harsh and mean to other people.
The thing is your probably going to compare every boy to your ex bf. Which will mean you focus on everyone's negative aspects and your ex's positive points. Which isn't good because you need to forget him and by constantly thinking about how ""amazing"" he is won't help. You don't want noone else because your comparing everyone to your ex, you just need to forget him, open your eyes and opinions to what everyone else has to offer and it will be easy.
Your mentality about not finding anyone else is what will drag you down.
And if you continue going about stalking him, that's what it sounds like your going to drive him mad, your going to drive yourself mad and insane and you could end up in lots of trouble.
Trust me, forget about him and look at the other positive attributes that other guys have, not those similar to your ex, because if you always compare them to your ex and say if it's not like my ex then your not having them, well in that case you will not find anyone.
Stop comparing them to your ex and think about how good they are at other things.
Hope this helps.1
Most Helpful Girl
He is an a*hole. Dot.
Girl, move on. I know it's hard, but you gotta do it at some point. He doesn't want to talk to you what is a shame. Cause if I was you I would demand more explanations, mainly cause he was your first everything, right? So I guess what you guys had was a strong thing. It does make sense you want him back, seeing frm this point of view. But the reality is that is has turned into an a*hole in the moment he considered doing this to you in such a bad way. He should have had a real and frank talk to you. You deserve to know what went wrong. At same time you gotta be strong and understand that if he doesn't love you anymore you just have to move on and be sure that you are gonna find someone who is a real man and treats you like you deserve to be treated.1